As we age, maintaining our independence becomes increasingly important. Most older adults want to stay at home for as long as possible, but doing so without help can be dangerous. One example is Retired Executive (RE), a 78-year-old who lives alone in a large home and faces safety risks daily. Despite needing assistance with activities of daily living, such as bathing and dressing, RE has struggled to access her long term care insurance benefits due to bureaucratic hurdles.
When RE reached out to AgingParents.com for help, a plan was put in place to address her insurance issues and safety concerns. With the involvement of her granddaughter, a newly licensed RN, an assessment and Plan of Care were scheduled to qualify her for benefits. Additionally, a licensed Occupational Therapist was enlisted to make recommendations for making bathing safer in her home. By coordinating this information and resources, RE can continue to live independently with the necessary support.
It is crucial for families to address the needs of aging parents before a crisis occurs, as resistance to help is common among seniors. In cases where obstacles hinder obtaining assistance, family members can offer to assist in problem-solving to navigate complex systems. By being proactive and vigilant for signs of decline, such as difficulties with daily activities, families can better ensure the safety and well-being of their loved ones as they age.
The story of RE serves as a reminder that barriers to accessing support services for older adults can be overcome with persistence and advocacy. While aging may bring changes and challenges, with the right help and resources, many seniors can continue to live in their preferred environment and maintain their independence. It is essential for families to plan ahead and be prepared to adapt to the changing needs of their aging loved ones, advocating for the support and assistance necessary to ensure their safety and well-being.
