In a recent episode of Tori Spelling’s “misSpelling” podcast, the actress revealed that she stayed married to her estranged husband, Dean McDermott, for a longer period of time because she feared finding a man who would feel emasculated by her success. Spelling expressed her concerns about being a woman with power, fame, and wealth, and how that might affect her relationships with men. She mentioned feeling guilty about her status and wondered how she could ever be with a man who wouldn’t feel inferior to her.
Her former “Beverly Hills, 90210” co-star Shannen Doherty offered some perspective by reminding Spelling that there are men who have their own status and achievements in different fields. Doherty emphasized that success and perseverance are qualities that can be found in both men and women, and it’s possible to be with someone who is proud of their accomplishments regardless of gender. However, Spelling still struggled with the idea of finding a man who wouldn’t be intimidated by her success.
Despite Doherty’s attempts to comfort her, Spelling remained unconvinced that she would ever find a man who could handle the “Tori Spelling of it all.” She acknowledged the challenges that come with her public persona and the expectations that come along with being a well-known figure. Spelling expressed concerns about the impact her status would have on potential relationships and the difficulty of finding someone who would accept her for who she is.
Spelling filed for divorce from McDermott in March, ending their 18-year marriage due to irreconcilable differences. The separation date was listed as June 17, 2023, which coincided with the day McDermott announced their breakup on Instagram. In a subsequent interview, McDermott opened up about a heated argument and suicide attempt that led to the end of their marriage. The breakup reportedly blindsided their friends and fans, shedding light on the challenges the couple faced in their relationship.
The former couple shares five children together, and both have been seen with new partners following their split. McDermott is in a relationship with senior account executive Lily Calo, while Spelling was seen kissing advertising CEO Ryan Cramer. Despite moving on with new partners, both Spelling and McDermott have faced challenges in their post-divorce relationships. Spelling’s candid discussions on her podcast shed light on the complexities of navigating success, power dynamics, and relationships in the public eye. Ultimately, the actress remains hopeful about finding a partner who will appreciate her for who she is, regardless of her status.
