Taylor Swift’s latest album, The Tortured Poets Department, has been released, showcasing her signature astute observations about millennial life. In her duet with Florence Welch, “Florida!!!”, Swift sings about the stark divide within the friendship groups of many 30-somethings, highlighting the unique challenges faced by this generation.
Unlike past generations, millennials have delayed growing up, with factors such as extended college experiences and economic uncertainty contributing to a prolonged period of adolescence. The job market upon graduation was particularly challenging during the economic downturn of the late 2000s, leading many to struggle with career progression and homeownership. As a result, many young adults turned to enjoying the pleasures of youth, often indulging in excessive drinking and partying.
The 2010s saw the rise of dating apps, providing millennials with a seemingly endless array of romantic prospects. This shift towards a more casual approach to dating contributed to a mindset of delaying settling down in favor of exploring other options. The average age of marriage has increased significantly since previous generations, with women now marrying at 37 on average and men at 39. Similarly, the average age for having a first child is now 30.9, reflecting a shift towards later parenthood.
The housing crisis and soaring rents in cities like London made the idea of owning property seem unattainable for many millennials, further contributing to a focus on enjoying the present rather than planning for the future. Shared housing and the convenience of services like Uber made it easier for young adults to socialize and indulge in nights out, leading to a culture of endless parties and hangovers as they navigated the challenges of adulthood.
The rise of shared housing also facilitated the bonding of new friendships, as young adults navigated the complexities of making connections in a changing social landscape. The prevalence of never-ending parties and hangovers was a common theme among millennials, as they sought to find their place in a world that felt increasingly uncertain. Swift’s poignant lyrics on her latest album capture the essence of this unique moment in time for the millennial generation, offering a reflection on the challenges and experiences that define their existence.
