In the Holy Koran, children are described as a blessing from God, but also as a trial for believers. For many couples facing infertility, the idea of children as a trial may initially seem harsh. The author, who had her children in 2006 and 2008, noticed the challenges of teenagehood emerging during the pandemic of 2020. The limitations on social interactions, access to mental health support, and health and fitness opportunities had a profound impact on her children.
As her children struggled with the challenges of becoming teenagers in such unprecedented times, the author and her husband faced difficulties in understanding and supporting them. From angry outbursts to visits to the emergency room and poor academic performance, their children faced various obstacles. Despite their efforts to seek help and support, the children felt that it was not enough. Through prayer and supplication, the family tried to navigate the hardships together, while also reflecting on the teachings of the Holy Koran regarding children as a trial.
In the midst of adversity, the author emphasizes the importance of remaining grateful for blessings, even during trying times. The pandemic brought forth challenges that tested the family’s strength and resilience. Over the course of four years, the author witnessed her children slowly emerge from the darkness and make progress. Their smiles, once again visible, serve as symbols of resilience and the power of prayer. The difficulties faced as a family have allowed them to appreciate the journey to the other side.
The author’s experiences highlight the significance of finding gratitude and strength in the face of challenges. Despite the hardships endured, there is a sense of joy in seeing the transformation and progress made by her children. The resilience demonstrated by the family serves as a testament to their faith and perseverance. Through prayer and reflection on the teachings of the Holy Koran, they were able to navigate the trials and tribulations that came their way during the pandemic.
Naureen Choudhry’s efforts in promoting intercultural and interfaith harmony have been recognized with a Victorian Governor’s Award in 2018. Her personal experiences during the pandemic shed light on the struggles faced by families and individuals alike. By sharing her story, she emphasizes the importance of faith, prayer, and gratitude in overcoming challenges. The journey of her family serves as a reminder of the power of resilience and the transformative nature of trials described in the Holy Koran.
