In her memoir “Rebel Rising,” Rebel Wilson opened up about her sexual experiences, revealing that she had her first orgasm at the age of 39 in 2019, which she called her “Year of Love.” Wilson had previously not focused on her own pleasure during sex and had never truly experienced an orgasm until she began experimenting with her own body. After buying sex toys and educating herself on the topic, she was able to climax while pleasuring herself solo, leading her to realize the importance of her own pleasure in sexual relationships.
Wilson also shared that she lost her virginity at the age of 35, calling herself a “late bloomer.” She wanted to send a positive message that individuals do not have to lose their virginity as teenagers and can wait until they are ready or more mature. Wilson revealed that she lost her virginity to her ex, Mickey Gooch Jr, whom she dated for a few months in 2015 and included the anecdote in her memoir. She described celebrating the experience with herself and feeling empowered by the decision to be intimate, especially after her mother’s cancer diagnosis.
In preparation for having sex for the first time, Wilson watched porn and used a vibrator to mentally and physically prepare herself. She reflected on how her thought process around sex has changed, allowing her to live more in her body and enjoy intimacy more. Wilson acknowledged that she might have explored her sexuality more if she had been born 20 years later, as she only realized she was attracted to men and considered it normal. Despite this, she expressed excitement about her current relationship and the pleasure she is experiencing.
Despite her late start in exploring sexual pleasure, Wilson emphasized the importance of prioritizing one’s own pleasure in sexual relationships and learning about their own desires and needs. She highlighted the role of self-discovery and experimentation in achieving sexual satisfaction and encouraged others to take the time to understand themselves better in that regard. Through her candid revelations about her own journey to orgasm, Wilson aimed to destigmatize discussions around sexuality and encourage others to embrace their own experiences and desires.
