Rachel Bailey, 31, and her husband Alexander, 30, formed a unique bond by breastfeeding each other. They were devastated when their youngest son stopped breastfeeding and Rachel stopped producing breastmilk, ending this bonding experience. The couple even considered having another child to continue breastfeeding. However, they ultimately decided to explore other ways to connect as a couple due to the effort and dedication required for having another child.
Now, Rachel and Alexander wake up at 5 a.m. every day to meditate and spend time together before the start of their day. This routine has helped them find a new way to bond outside of breastfeeding. Additionally, they have ventured into business together as another shared activity. Despite the challenges of finding alternative ways to bond, the couple has embraced the change and found joy in their new routine.
Since Rachel shared her breastfeeding experience with her husband publicly, she has received numerous bizarre requests, including offers to purchase her breastmilk and requests for them to make breastfeeding videos. However, she emphasizes that breastfeeding was never a sexual act for them but rather a special way to bond and share intimacy as a couple. The couple has chosen to focus on the positive aspects of their bonding experience and not let online hate and trolls affect them.
Despite facing negative comments and trolls online, Rachel and Alexander have found that most people they meet in person are understanding and supportive of their unique bonding experience. The couple acknowledges that while they miss the intimacy of breastfeeding, they have found new ways to connect and are grateful for the love and understanding they receive in person. They have chosen to focus on the positive relationships they have with those around them rather than the negativity found online.
Rachel and Alexander have embraced the changes in their bonding experience and have discovered new ways to connect outside of breastfeeding. They are grateful for the understanding and support they receive from those they meet in person and have chosen to ignore the online hate and negativity. While they miss the special moments shared through breastfeeding, the couple is focused on nurturing their relationship through other activities such as meditation and business endeavors. Despite the unconventional nature of their bond, Rachel and Alexander are committed to finding joy and connection in new ways.
