Alexandria van Starrenburg and James ‘“Bud” Vallely’s love story began in early 2019 when they officially met after their parents had known each other for many years. It wasn’t until April 2021 that they went on their first date, after connecting at a New York Rangers game. Bud, who had been living in China for seven years, had recently relocated to New York City, which made it easier for them to start their relationship. Despite living only a block away from each other in the West Village, it took them a while to go on their first date, but once they did, their relationship moved forward quickly, and they were essentially living together within a few weeks.
In 2022, the couple spent the holidays with Bud’s family in Jackson Hole, Wyoming, where Bud proposed to Alexandria during a snowshoeing trip on the Shooting Star Golf Course. It was a perfect Christmas moment as he got down on one knee amidst the snowy landscape. The couple’s wedding took place at the end of the summer in Bedford, New York, on the bride’s father’s property. Alexandria, who grew up in Bedford, knew she wanted to have a backyard-style wedding in a place that held sentimental value for her. The trees on the property provided a stunning backdrop for the ceremony, and several were even planted specifically for the wedding.
Despite the short planning timeline of eight months, the couple was able to create a beautiful and memorable wedding day with the help of event planner Chris Hessney and his team. Alexandria’s mother took charge of the flowers, adding a personal touch to the decor. The couple was grateful to work with a planner who shared their passion for unique florals and had exquisite taste, helping bring their vision to life. The intimate wedding brought together family and friends from both sides, making it a special celebration of love and unity for Alexandria and Bud.
As they look ahead to their future together, Alexandria and Bud are excited for the next chapter of their lives as a married couple. With a strong foundation of love and shared experiences, they are confident in their relationship and eager to see what the future holds for them. Their love story, which began with a chance meeting at a hockey game and blossomed into a beautiful proposal and wedding, is a testament to the power of love and connection. As they continue to build their lives together, Alexandria and Bud are grateful for the love and support of their family and friends, who have been with them every step of the way.
