Paloma Faith recently spoke on the podcast Great Company with Jamie Laing about her heartbreak over her split from ex Leyman Lachine, emphasizing that the heartbreak will be ongoing due to their children. The couple tied the knot in 2017 and had two daughters before separating in 2022 after nine years together. Paloma admitted that the pain of the split is especially raw when they see each other because of their children, who often exhibit traits of their parents. Despite their love for each other, the breakup has been challenging for both of them.
The singer shared that having children with Leyman was what ultimately led to the breakdown of their marriage, as becoming parents changed their relationship irreversibly. Paloma acknowledged that the couple either needed to grow together or face growing apart, and becoming a mother shifted her priorities in a way that affected the relationship. She expressed that their separation was worth it because of their children, even if it was a difficult decision to make. Paloma emphasized the impact of children on a relationship and the importance of adapting to changes together.
Speaking candidly in interviews, Paloma has reflected on how resentment built in her relationship with Leyman when she could no longer prioritize him due to their children. She admitted that men often struggle with being put second in a relationship, and the lack of expectations between her and Leyman has contributed to their improved relationship as co-parents. Paloma emphasized the importance of communication and understanding in navigating their new dynamic, and acknowledged that their breakup was necessary for both of them to thrive individually.
Paloma released her sixth album, The Glorification of Sadness, which delves into the stages of grief she experienced post-split. While she clarified that the album is not meant to be a revenge album, she explained that it focuses on her internal experience rather than pointing fingers. Paloma revealed that Leyman has not listened to the album, but she believes that it could help him understand her perspective and foster empathy between them. Despite the challenges of the breakup, Paloma remains focused on her own emotional journey and finding closure on her terms.
The singer admitted that the heartbreak from her split with Leyman is particularly challenging because of their deep love for each other and the shared experience of parenthood. Despite the difficulties, Paloma remains committed to co-parenting and ensuring a positive relationship with Leyman for the sake of their children. She acknowledged that their split was necessary for both of them to grow and flourish in their own ways, and she continues to navigate the changes in their relationship with grace and honesty. Paloma’s openness about her struggles and experiences serves as a source of inspiration for those facing similar challenges in their own relationships.
