Table etiquette is becoming a thing of the past, especially among the younger generation, according to a survey by restaurant group Prezzo. Over half of Gen Z diners no longer see table manners as relevant. The survey revealed that 77% of Gen Z diners do not care if people put their elbows on the table, and 60% are indifferent about how someone holds their silverware. Additionally, the survey found that 32% of people of all ages never think about their table manners.
Despite the laid-back attitude towards table manners among the younger crowd, the survey also showed that over half of British diners are upset about the lack of table manners they observe. Nearly half of the respondents stated that they would not date someone with bad table manners. Common etiquette offenses that irked survey participants included loud chewing, using phones at the table, eating off others’ plates without asking, talking with food in the mouth, being loud, and snapping fingers at servers.
Cell phones at the table are a major etiquette breach that many young adult diners are guilty of, with 38% admitting to using their devices during a meal. Having a phone at the table is not only rude but also unhygienic as studies have shown that phones are ten times dirtier than a toilet seat. Cultural experts and authors such as Claire Finney and Noël Wolf agree that using phones at the table should be discouraged. While taking a quick snapshot of your food for social media is generally accepted, engaging in phone calls or scrolling through social media platforms should be avoided to allow for quality time and connection during dining experiences.
Critics agree that while traditional table manners might be outdated, having basic respect and consideration for others at the table is still important. Regardless of whether one follows strict table etiquette or not, common courtesy should prevail. Despite changing cultural norms, maintaining a level of respect for fellow diners and being mindful of how one’s behavior affects others is key when dining out. Lastly, the consensus is that while technology plays a significant role in modern dining experiences, it should not overshadow the value of personal connections and relationships formed during shared meals.
