Artist Sasha Skochilenko was released from a Russian prison after spending more than two years behind bars for protesting against Russia’s war in Ukraine. She and her partner Sonya Subbotina, who were unable to get married in Russia due to its ban on same-sex marriages, are now planning to tie the knot in Germany, where same-sex marriage is legal. Skochilenko spoke about feeling liberated in Germany, where she and Subbotina can openly display their affection without judgment. They both hope that by being open about their relationship, they can help challenge stereotypes and misconceptions about the LGBTQ+ community.
In Russia, same-sex marriage was explicitly outlawed in the constitution in 2020 as part of a reform pushed through by President Vladimir Putin to extend his rule. Putin also signed a law in 2022 that banned any public endorsement of LGBTQ+ relationships, further restricting gay rights in the country. Skochilenko’s arrest and subsequent imprisonment in 2022 were a result of her anti-war protests, during which she replaced price tags in a supermarket with anti-war slogans. She struggled with her health conditions while in prison, and Subbotina took on the role of providing her with essential items and fighting for her case to remain in the public eye.
Subbotina and Skochilenko were separated for a year while Skochilenko was in prison, as the authorities refused to allow Subbotina to visit her due to their relationship not being officially recognized. Subbotina noted the challenges faced by partners of political prisoners in Russia and expressed gratitude for the short visits she was eventually granted. After Skochilenko was convicted and sentenced to seven years in prison, they were finally reunited in Germany, where they hope to start a new life together. They have not yet decided where or how they will marry, but Skochilenko plans to continue her art while Subbotina is considering a career in human rights advocacy to help other political prisoners in Russia.
Skochilenko and Subbotina acknowledge that leaving Russia was not something they had expected, but they believe it is ultimately for the best. They hope to use their experiences to raise awareness and support for LGBTQ+ rights and political prisoners in Russia. Skochilenko also aims to work through the trauma of her time in prison while looking towards the future in Germany. The couple’s story sheds light on the struggles faced by LGBTQ+ individuals and political dissidents in Russia, as well as the importance of perseverance and support in the face of adversity.
