A woman writes to Dear Abby about her husband’s escalating anger issues, which have become more frequent since he lost his job six months ago. She has tried to suggest marriage counseling, but he ignores her. The woman recently got a job to help with finances, but she is finding it hard to focus with all the chaos at home. She is worried about the negative impact of her husband’s behavior on their children and is seeking advice on what to do.
Dear Abby advises the woman to start saving money from her job so she and her children can escape the toxic environment. She also recommends contacting the National Domestic Violence Hotline for help in forming a safe escape plan, as the husband’s behavior seems to be escalating and may be considered domestic violence. Abby stresses the importance of taking action to protect oneself and one’s children from further harm.
In another letter, a woman expresses her distress over her sister giving her daughter the nickname “Patzilla,” a combination of the daughter’s name, Patricia, and Godzilla. The woman had previously told her sister that she didn’t like the nickname, but her sister has started using it again. The woman is deeply hurt by this and is seeking advice on how to handle the situation.
Dear Abby advises the woman to not expose her daughter to anyone who ridicules her or gives her a name that she doesn’t want her to have. The nickname “Patzilla” is considered mean and sinister, and it’s important to protect the child from negativity and hurtful remarks. Abby emphasizes the importance of standing up for what is right and protecting one’s loved ones from harmful influences.
Dear Abby, written by Abigail Van Buren, offers advice on various personal and relationship issues. Readers can reach out for guidance on a wide range of topics, from family dynamics to work-related challenges. The column was founded by Abby’s mother, Pauline Phillips, and continues to provide support and insight to those in need. Abby’s responses often focus on promoting healthy boundaries, self-care, and open communication in order to navigate difficult situations. Readers can contact Dear Abby through the DearAbby.com website or by mail at a Los Angeles address.
