Taylor Swift recently dropped a series of playlists on Apple Music, each titled after different The Tortured Poets Department variants or songs. Each collection is based on one of the five stages of grief: denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance. One playlist titled “I Love You, It’s Ruining My Life” features songs about getting caught up in the idea of something and having a hard time seeing red flags, possibly resulting in moments of denial and delusion. Many of the songs on this playlist were either about or co-written by Swift’s ex-boyfriend Joe Alwyn, including tracks like “Lover,” “Miss Americana and the Heartbreak Prince,” and “False God.”
Swift’s Lover album, which features songs like “Lover” and “Miss Americana and the Heartbreak Prince,” was also written about her romance with Alwyn. The couple dated between 2016 and 2023 before breaking up. Fans were quick to point out the significance of placing these love songs in the “denial” stage of grief on the playlist. Some fans found it amusing, while others found it sad that Swift had to delete a social media post explaining the song “Lavender Haze” because it was indicative of her being in denial.
The inclusion of “Lavender Haze” on the playlist was particularly notable as it was a track from 2022 that was presumably penned about Alwyn. In a previous video, Swift explained that the phrase “lavender haze” was commonly used in the 50s to describe being in love. She noted that when in the “lavender haze,” one would do anything to stay in that love glow and not let anyone bring them down. This theme of love and denial seemed to resonate with many people, especially in the era of social media where relationships are constantly scrutinized.
Other playlists on Apple Music include titles like “You Don’t Get to Tell Me About Sad Songs,” “I Can Do It With a Broken Heart,” “Old Habits Die Screaming,” and “Am I Allowed to Cry?” While none of Swift’s TTPD songs are currently included on these playlists, the album is set to drop in 13 days, which is Swift’s lucky number. The album features a duet with Post Malone called “Fortnight,” adding to the anticipation surrounding its release.
Overall, Swift’s recent playlists on Apple Music have sparked discussions among fans about the connection between her songs and her personal life, particularly her past relationship with Joe Alwyn. The inclusion of love songs in the “denial” stage of grief playlist has resonated with many listeners, highlighting the complex emotions that come with relationships and breakups. Swift’s ability to weave personal experiences into her music continues to captivate audiences, leaving them eagerly awaiting the release of her upcoming album, The Tortured Poets Department.
