Summarize this content to 2000 words in 6 paragraphs This week, Reddit user u/Asleep-Lavishness332 posed the question “What did a significant other say to you that made you immediately leave the relationship?” Jamie Grill / Getty Images/Tetra images RFHere are some of the top-voted answers:Note: This story discusses emotional abuse.1.”My godfather, whom I was very close to, died. We were eating in the kitchen when I heard. I immediately left, in tears, to the airport to get to the funeral that was happening the very next morning on another continent. When I was back, 48 hours later, the first words out of her mouth were: ‘You didn’t do the dishes.'”—u/ArcaniteM2.”My dad died suddenly and I had to fly out of state. I was planning on staying a week so I could spend time with family but I decided to leave a few days early so I could be home for my boyfriend’s birthday. I flew home on his birthday and was planning on going right over to his house for dinner with him and his family. When I got there, he was annoyed that it took me so long to get there. He asked why I was late. For some reason, it just rubbed me the wrong way. My dad just died and I drove there straight from the airport. I didn’t make any stops or anything on the way. He just seemed so ungrateful that I put in the effort or that I was still dealing with the death of a parent.”—u/Suspiciousunicorns Drazen_ / Getty Images3.”‘I only cheated because you left me alone for too long. I love you but I have needs.’ I was gone for two days on a business trip that I invited him on.”—u/SageBroadus4.”When she kept telling me daily she could do better than me. Go on then.”—u/PearlyP20205.”You better be glad I didn’t sleep with my ex while I was mad!”—u/Nice_Necessary_10026.”‘I can replace you with someone else whenever I want.’ I immediately walked out.”—u/daanpol Professionalstudioimages / Getty Images7.”I’m not attracted to you.”—u/PoisonLenny378.”You always work or study. Can’t you just drop all that useless stuff?”—u/ShadowWolfee_349.”He cheated on me and four days later I brought it up again, obviously, and he sighed and said, ‘Haven’t we already talked about this?’ He was extremely surprised I ended our relationship, and then he balled his eyes out like a baby.”—u/throwawayregret2325 Skynesher / Getty Images10.“’You need to choose who’s more important — me or your kids.’ Easiest decision ever. He seemed genuinely shocked that I chose my children.”—u/sewflamingo11.”I’m related to a well-known singer. The guy I was dating turned out to be a huge fan and all he ever wanted to talk about was said singer. One day he asked if he could meet my family and I was super happy. My cousin, however, was in Germany at the time and couldn’t attend. When he found out my cousin wouldn’t be attending, he threw a massive childish tantrum in front of my whole family and kicked over the BBQ. His words, ‘What was even the point of inviting me.’ I agreed.”—u/peachandbetty12.”On our 2-year anniversary, I took her on a 4-day getaway. Big suite, her favorite French cuisine, concert, ballet, etc. The final night there, she says, ‘I’ve decided to finally, completely commit to you and you only.'”—u/CordCarillo Drazen Zigic / Getty Images13.”We ended up talking about cheating and she said, ‘I’d never INTEND to cheat on you.’ No matter how I said it, she just couldn’t comprehend that the word ‘intend’ didn’t fill me with joy, and she kept repeating it and emphasizing it. Thought I’d save myself the heartbreak!”—u/PolyDabbler14.”I told my girlfriend I had a new high-paying job. Her first words were ‘You can finally pay off my debt.’ I didn’t know about the debt and noped out of there like lightning. Found out afterwards that she had been pretending to go to work and then sneaking back in after I left for work.”—u/ArcaLegend15.”‘Not to be an asshole, but I’m the best thing you’ll ever get.’ I moved out the next day.”—u/mcd62 Anchiy / Getty Images16.”He wanted us to try for a baby. I said I wouldn’t have a child until I was married. He then said he didn’t really see ‘wife’ qualities in me.”—u/swati_princess17.“’You’re 80% of what I want in a partner but you are missing that 20%.’ It was using percentages when talking about my character that did it for me.”—u/Ok-Benefit197 Aquaarts Studio / Getty ImagesSome submissions have been edited for length and/or clarity.If you or someone you know is in immediate danger as a result of domestic violence, call 911. For anonymous, confidential help, you can call the 24/7 National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE) or chat with an advocate via the website.The National Alliance on Mental Illness helpline is 1-800-950-6264 (NAMI) and provides information and referral services; GoodTherapy.org is an association of mental health professionals from more than 25 countries who support efforts to reduce harm in therapy.
