A tragic murder-suicide occurred in St. Augustine, Florida, involving St. John’s County Fire Rescue Lt. Shawn Yarbrough and his wife, financial advisor Andrea Nichole Nahrup Yarbrough. The couple was found dead in their home, with Andrea’s death being considered a homicide and Shawn’s death a suicide. Both succumbed to gunshot wounds, according to the autopsy report. The incident occurred just weeks after Andrea expressed frustration online about her husband’s exhausting work schedule, which left him “never functioning 100% at home.”
Prior to their deaths, Andrea had shared a Facebook post detailing the grueling work schedule of her husband, who was a firefighter. She pointed out the significant amount of calls for service that his department received, highlighting the toll it took on their family life. The couple, who had recently celebrated their first wedding anniversary, had a blended family of four children, with Andrea being a loving stepmother to Shawn’s three sons from a previous relationship, as well as a mother to her own 11-year-old daughter.
The tragic loss of Andrea has left her family and loved ones devastated. Her mother and sister expressed shock and sorrow over the incident, highlighting Andrea’s caring and resilient nature. The family has started a GoFundMe to support Andrea’s daughter, Lily, who is now without her mother. The fundraiser has raised over $20,000 to provide financial support for Lily’s future and well-being. Lily will be moving in with her grandparents along with her dog, Marsh, as they navigate this difficult time.
In response to the tragedy, St. Johns County Fire Rescue Chief Sean McGee addressed the incident in a heartfelt Facebook post, expressing profound sadness over the loss and acknowledging the enduring impact on the families and children involved. The incident sheds light on the ongoing issue of suicides among emergency responders, with more first responders dying from suicide than in the line of duty each year. The Ruderman Family Foundation’s report has highlighted the need for better mental health support and resources for these essential workers who face significant challenges in their roles.
The heartbreaking loss of Andrea Yarbrough has underscored the need for greater awareness and support for mental health in emergency response departments. The family and community are rallying around Andrea’s daughter, Lily, to provide her with the care and resources she needs during this difficult time. If you or someone you know is struggling with suicidal thoughts or experiencing a mental health crisis, there are resources available, such as the National Suicide Prevention Hotline and NYC WELL crisis counseling services, to provide support and assistance during moments of need. The tragic incident serves as a reminder of the importance of mental health awareness and support for those who dedicate their lives to serving others in times of crisis.
