Kim Menzies, a star on 90 Day Fiancé, has cut off all communication with her ex-fiancé, Usman “SojaBoy” Umar, and has no regrets about it. She believes it is best for both of them to move on and has unfollowed him on social media. The couple, who appeared on seasons 5 and 7 of the franchise, announced their split during season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After? Kim stated that while they were there for each other when needed, they ultimately needed to go their separate ways to truly move on.
Despite the end of her relationship with Usman, Kim is actively trying to move forward and get back into the dating game. She mentioned that she is talking to a few people, but nothing serious. She mentioned rekindling with someone she knew before meeting Usman. Additionally, Kim expressed feeling more confident than ever before and is excited about the new possibilities in her love life. She wants to find someone who accepts her for who she is and is not interested in dating someone significantly younger than her.
During her time with Usman, Kim faced body-shaming comments and scrutiny over their 18-year age difference. However, she is now focused on being true to herself and finding happiness without the negativity. As she approaches her 55th birthday, Kim feels content with who she is and is looking forward to living the rest of her life authentically. She expressed a desire to avoid gaslighting and prioritize her happiness above all else.
Kim is proud of the journey she has been on and is excited to share her progress with her loyal fans. She emphasized that she wants to be known as a genuinely kind and happy person as she navigates the next chapter of her life. Despite the challenges she has faced, Kim is focused on maintaining a positive outlook and finding love in a way that aligns with her values and desires. She is grateful for the support of her fans and is looking forward to what the future holds for her.
